Mia Fields
Dating
dating and relationship strategist
Know within three dates whether a man is serious and ready afor a real relationship before you become emotionally invested.
By date three, you can see how he communicates, whether his words match his actions and whether he has the direction and relationship capacity to build something real.
You don’t need to wait months or even years, not when you know what to look for. Three dates gives you the information you need.
Stop Becoming The Unofficial Girlfriend™
You talk every day. You spend your weekends together; you might even be living together. You give him your time, loyalty, care and attention, yet the relationship remains undefined.
That’s what I call giving relationship level access without receiving relationship level security. He gets the experience of a relationship, while you battle the stress and uncertainty of being with him.
The longer it goes on, the harder it becomes to separate what’s actually happening from what you’re hoping it becomes.
"A man can enjoy being with you and still not be building a future with you."
Three dates. One clear answer.
Has he earned further access to you?
By date three, you can see more than chemistry: you can see how he communicates, what he wants, whether his words match his actions and whether he has the maturity and direction to build a genuine, lasting relationship with you.
Those first three dates protect you from months or even years of ‘unnecessary heartbreak’ from a situationship.
Choose the support that matches where you are now
The 3-Date
Filter™
Know within three dates whether the man you are dating is serious and ready for a real relationship, so you stop wasting time, before you become emotionally invested.
The Situationship Audit™
Find out exactly why situationships keep happening and what the connection in front of you is actually offering and get clarity and next steps about where you stand with him.
1:1 Dating
Session
Get clarity on what’s happening with you and change the way you date so you stop mistaking potential for progress and start creating the relationship you truly want.
30 DAY FLAGSHIP EXPERIENCE
Change the way you date in 30 days so you stop mistaking potential for progress.
Build the standards, filters and decision making habits that help you recognise whether a relationship can actually happen.
Next cohort begins 1 October 2026.
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I'm Mia
As a Dating and Relationship Strategist, with a background in relationship psychology,I help smart, accomplished women avoid situationships, stop overinvesting in potential and recognise if a man is serious and ready for a real relationship before they become emotionally invested.
I’m also a certified life coach, founder of The Emergent Woman® and creator of Life after NO®.
I once lived the experience of being The Unofficial Girlfriend™: giving relationship level access without receiving relationship level security. Along the way, I also many smart, accomplished women caught in the “invisible trap” of situationships. This has shaped the work I do today.
My work is grounded in two core beliefs: every single decision you make is influenced by the value you place on yourself and no woman should enter a relationship purely from a place of loneliness, desperation or fear.
The Emergent Woman®
Helping women choose the life and relationships that are right for them on their terms.
Work With Mia
- Programmes & Resources
- Private Coaching
- Say Less Experiences
- Media & Speaking